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If you think that sex life is all about foreplay, love, and kinky sex positions then you might be living in a fantasy because intimate life can also take another turn to the town of pleasure, fun, and fulfillment. Lubricants for sexual pleasure are such a way out for every person out there who looks forward to a thrilling time in bed.

Apart from sex toys there are many ways to create that oomph factor in your bedroom which include starting off with a good play, role play to be specific, then some kinky touch to the night followed by a delightful use of lubricants, and voila you have a rather more exhilarating night for you ahead than ever.

Lubricants and their oh-so intoxicating flavors

You might wonder about what a simple lubricant can do to completely change your sex game? Well, let us enlighten you about some enjoyable features of sexual lubricants which will make you want them more.

Variant flavors of lubricants

Lubricants can be a way for you to add flavors to your sexual life, thanks to multiple lubricant flavors available, you not only can enjoy their application but can also include them in your kinky activities.

Flavors like Strawberry, Black Currant, Chocolate, Green Apple, and Raseela Pan can add spice to your intimate activities. The flavored lubes are edible and act as a good companion for oral intimate adventures for you. Flavored lubricants are made of organic & natural extracts making them extremely suitable for the thrilling oral experience. Also, flavors add the missing excitement & thrill into the moment.

But it is not just flavor that does all the magic, different kinds of lubricants also play a major role in the deciding factor of which to use & when, hence let us dive into the same.

Water-based lubricants

The most loved and used type of lube out there in the market is a water-based lubricant. The reason being its consistency and features, the water-based lubes are extremely easy to apply and clean. Their consistency makes them feel light when applied and also gives an advantage of not staining the sheets and covers of any surface.

Water-based lubes are also quite compatible with rubber or latex condoms, so if you are thinking of making use of your favorite condom on your best night then using water-based lube can be a win-win for you. If you are thinking to use the water-based lube for your silicone or rubber-based sex toy then also it is the perfect choice for you. The only setback to this lube is that it is not competent to be used with water, specifically if you are thinking of using it under a shower or in your bathtub with your partner then the water-based lube won’t stay put and will be washed along with the water. Apart from that, this lubricant is your perfect go-to lube for any of your sensual adventures.

Silicone-based lubricants

Now if you are disappointed with the fact that you can not use your favorite water-based lube in the shower then you can take a sigh of relief because with silicone-based lubes it is now possible to enjoy a steamy hot shower with your partner. This lube is completely compatible with water and also gives you the advantage of not re-applying it again & again. It is quite thick providing you the comfort of long hours of lubrication and smoothness.

Oil-based lubricants

Oil-based lubes are another exquisite type of lubricant to opt for if you are looking for a long & retaining stay while you are busy making your partner happy. It can also be your companion in regular use and for intimate massages, oil-based lubes are the best. The one drawback related to them is that these can not be used while wearing a latex or non-latex condom. Hence, a big no to its use with condoms.

Now that we are done with the types of lubes and what kind is perfect for you, it is time to answer the most thought question as to why exactly you need a lubricant? Well, there are numerous reasons, but to name a few we have narrowed down reasons into the following!

1. Foreplay action with lubes: Cuddling and setting the tone right before diving into sex is extremely important. And to do that you can always prefer using a lubricant. Now, lube is not just your helper in making sure that your moments are filled with extra thrill but it is also a medium of bringing in smooth sex. Also, this ultimate sex tool can be used for other purposes as well including body massage and body lubrication before exciting sex.
2. Dive into smooth & painless sex: Lubrication means to provide a smooth & gliding surface and the same is the case with lubes used for sexual pleasure. Sexual lubricants are used to make the surface of application very soft so as to allow easy insertion during sex. Ladies usually feel rough or rather painful down there after sex which is common due to the lack of lubrication between the skin surface with a condom or skin. Hence, for a thrilling yet soft silk experience, it is a must to use lube because your intimate time should not be about painful times rather it should be filled with pleasure & more.
3. Oral Pleasure: Sex is not just about intercourse, you can make your sexual fantasies come true with oral sex as well. To orally please your partner is not underrated nowadays, it is quite enjoyed by everyone and to be able to satisfy your partner just by oral lovemaking is very appealing. To enhance your romantic oral ventures use of lubricants is like icing on the cake. Lubricants, specially flavored lubes make the whole experience exciting, thrilling and not to mention quite yummy.
4. Make sex life interesting: On top of everything use of lubes in intimate times is all about making your dull sexual life interesting & full of adventures. Lubes are a powerful sexual tool to make any monotonous sexual scene quite fun.

Now that we are at the end of the lube conversation it is evident and very apparent that the use of lubricants is very beneficial for your sexual life. From pleasure to pain-less experience, lubes give it all.

Modern times have modern solutions for sexual urges, no I am not talking about sex toys BUT casual sex. Some might be already familiar with the term and others not so much. To put it in layman’s language casual sex is also known as a one-night-stand or friends with benefits situation.

Well, whatever it may be called, we know one thing for sure that it means the same in every term and that is to have sex without any strings attached. This can be a blessing for some, to have sex whenever you want, without wanting to have been answerable to the person, and most importantly, SEX WITHOUT RELATIONSHIP.

Yes, such things do fantasize some who dream of living a ‘free’ life. Casual sex is not just bound to singles but married ones also take part in this frivolously. It has become so common for people to get involved in this trend of occasional sex irrespective of its repercussions. 

But, as it goes, everything comes with some cons, therefore, let us dive into few clear as water realities of attempting casual sex before you actually consider to do it.

1. Mental side effectsFor some it isn’t so easy after casual sex, they usually feel anxious and guilty once they have done it, specially the married ones, they feel sorry about cheating on their partner. This is common but some take it very hard, they even suffer from depression.Mental health is definitely affected with occasional sex, it somehow makes you feel less worthy of yourself and so the guilt-trip continues.
2. Unsafe practiceA lot of times temporary sex can also be extremely unsafe, from STDs to other sexual problems, your health can take a toll on you. Not just that but it can even make you pregnant, YES, there have been multiple cases of people being drunk or careless and doing it without a condom which has left many getting pregnant.It is certain that no one would want to have a child with someone they just had meaningless sex with, so girls and boys be sure before having that irrelevant sex.
3. Emotionally vulnerableIt is common to feel emotionally exhausted with casual sex, if you have been there then believe me you are not alone. The ones who have sex with strangers or randomly with anyone are the most emotionally vulnerable. Casual sex might even confuse them and make them question themselves if they are in a relationship or not?If you are an emotionally weak person, I might suggest, casual sex is not a thing for you!
4. You might fall in loveFor all the romantic heads, casual sex might not be simply ‘casual’ for you, after-all sex does involve release of hormones which ultimately makes you fall for your sex partner. So, if you think you are going to be emotionally invested in the person, you should abort the casual sex mission NOW!
5.  That lonely feeling! If you are single and have no one to share your emotional baggage with then it is normal to feel lonely at the end of the day, specially with ones who enjoy occasional sex with strangers, they are most exposed to this feeling.No matter how much you enjoy those few hours with your temporary sex partner, at the end you do need someone with whom you can share everything, your highs and lows. This definitely can’t be done with a casual sex-lover of yours. This is why for not so bold & gutsy, you are better without casual sex my friend.

To wrap it all, let’s just admit that random sex with a random person (even with a friend with benefits) does seem like a thrilling & adventurous trip that we all want to go on. But, with pleasure comes a few face-punching realities which when hit, really makes us question if an hour’s euphoria is worth our mental and emotional well-being?